Monday, December 20, 2010

Mysterious Yorkshire

 (Question Chart: busy in Lhasa in the summer, and finally they arch out of an article on the British general election Bowen. With my feeling that this group of English would be difficult to attract the eye of the general election. But there is no turning back bow, or adhere to finish it it mm at his own indomitable spirit touched one. Fortunately, the changing situation, Bowen moved to the map, before finally be worthy of such a die-hard bloggers to the . that the text and graphics with anything to do with it? is now only written notes, if you mentioned somewhere, put it carry her out to talk about. As a result, inevitably, a hammer West East a stick. but not by rules and order, West Yorkshire people, so today let's talk about the things Yorkshire. This Yorkshire in the UK, although much of the well-known, but the Chinese people may not have the impression. Chinese people the impression that it is more physical clones, which Sisters, ! roaming the streets of York, to see where the strange sculptures, like the figure of the statue, the mystery is even more intense)
(Below: our house and start talking about it. to the time of York We live in West Yorkshire's largest city, where the there is indeed a heavenly feeling. Yorkshire where the place is the intersection of several major rivers, both singular view of the valley, there are large areas of wetlands. It is said the Romans from the earliest settlements in the repair here, but York mm and taken to enter into an easy to pronounce their name Lord of the UK, will be a fire burned York. But later, York and prosperity of the textile trade by virtue of the religious mm Romans have long played in the repair of a church here, that is the predecessor of today, York Minster, to attract Many of the students and the European pilgrims mm is developing very fast. Yorkshire was the largest administrative region in England, but in the 15th century, located in the confluence of several rivers, but also close to the sea port of Hull (Hull) become the main port area, York this is the real decline. now divided into four administrative regions of York Region: North Yorkshire, West Yorkshire, South Yorkshire and East York Administrative Region. we want to visit York City, located in the middle of North Yorkshire, but it is an independent administrative unit, not part of the North Yorkshire)
(Below: the early morning, I walk alone together, a sight that makes me a little feeling dizzy. the one hand, feel the beauty of scenery, on the other hand feel this is the mysterious desert alone. This may be subject to a mountains. This ; Haworth home. actually drop out from school are also a few weeks and soon die, only 10 years old. Since then, the Bronte Parsonage no longer afraid to let his children go to school, and only allow them to study at home. But the tragedy did not stop, his son because of alcohol and drug abuse, passed away early. The magic is his remaining three daughters, actually in the same year (1847) have each published both in English literature in the history of classic novels: old after the priest lost son, two daughters and have passed away, leaving only and three sisters as startlingly ambitious, full of strange weird ingredients)
(Below: dark snow, suzerain had to let him in the Villa in the night. night he had a strange dream: dream of the wind in the branches because of playing in the window, he worried that the glass broke, wanted to reach out to the branches break. did not think he caught, the woman was actually a pair of cold hands! a ghost sobbed request to let her in, she said she called the ! Luoke Wu scared screaming. suzerain heard about, ask what the reason, he turned off the Luoke Wu, his throwing himself on the bed, I heard the sound of the name to call it ghost, I hope she comes with him This brings the dream hh meet a thrilling, the story of sorrow Qijue. the background of the novel, is often mutated York wilderness situation. This makes people today think of walking here, not from the ground and there was a little guilty)
(Below: traveling to some parts of Britain, often because of lack of popularity in some places too, could not help that some people will panic associations. This is a farm near our residence, the whole morning, I I did not see where there have been a person, it is surprising, wonder whether there are deserted here, it is only a Ghost Story-style house)
(Below: Nearby, a wood products processing plants, but also quiet enough to allow Life suspected)
(Bottom: Comparison of processing items'd This one is located, will always feel a little puzzled, but also where their customers do?)
(Below: No one answered these questions, and only enjoy the endless plains in the case of no one, silently exhibits It's magnificent. York this place, there had been a rule of the British dynasty, that is, Little Earl Lancaster, Henry (known as Henry IV) of waste militarism, which established a dynasty of Lancaster. This dynasty, Henry IV, grandson of the three Henry VI transmitted when the Duke of York, Edward III thought he was the first the descendants of five children, his mother is a descendant of the third son of Edward III, a double royal blood relationship, than a series of Lancaster is more qualified to inherit the throne, so the last 30 years occurred in the a large number of nobles were massacred, the last dynasty, the family unification in the distant cousin of Lancaster, Elizabeth I's grandfather)
(Below: the land of York, the most common is definitely the golden rape everywhere. It is said that the rape was not used to squeeze oil, but used when the power of oil, the so-called ; the Duke of York later succeeded to the throne, the Duke of York to the title of natural canceled; or title no successor. Andrew Duke of York today, only two daughters, the Duke of York usual they can not inherit the title, so Andrew's death, the title can not download. so it was that Figure: The entire center of York, or the name confluence of these rivers eventually into a river called the River Hull in the Humber estuary, into the North Sea)
(Bottom: near the city of York wilderness scenery. often a flat among the grass, such as weaving, alone stands a tree, give as many associations)
(Below: the distant green leaves are sometimes visible, but it is a contrasting red house, a little Liaozhai the mean. do not know if this is the singular scenery, making York a pan-European inadvertently photographed the human eye can not see that the York's many historic houses castles, ghost stories are also the most success it one of the reasons. Interestingly, the York will be counted on the meter, specifically the development of a place, and teach you how to find them. The style clothing wearing like a vampire who is the special was a bit creepy. even the specialized shops called I do not know what his intention to evade or, ultimately did not achieve their goals. Notice the first one, others are more clear, only he is very vague. Finally, I photographed the back of his mysterious)
(Attachment: Roaming Britain, then the election (11): 1910 election, the hero ; Asquith overtaken by his wife.
Asquith (Asquith ,1852-1928 years) can actually call him , mm compulsory education is from the British king State religion, but also shows that the rise in social status Asquith. because Asquith was born in Yorkshire, northeast England, where the people of London and other big cities in the eyes of a , this will be thinking about plant community can only be considered middle. and, unfortunately, in his very young, my father died. One of his uncle in London, he and his adopted brother and sister. Despite rough childhood life experience, But Asquith talented. He was the first in London, a business school, and later studied law at Oxford University.
at Oxford, he studied at the , has won the Cambridge special We understand that four-dimensional world and multi-dimensional world, helpful, mm said that the Buddha called .
mystery is not so Asquith, the son of former clothiers is about reality. at Oxford made the first degree examination, served as the President of the University Student Federation prominent scores, and graduation when he a lawyer. As talented, he was soon the phase of the Liberal Party, mm in part because of his eloquent. Campbell said later he entered the cabinet, when, during the heated parliamentary debate, the Campbell then in such The Miao Yu asked him to exit: .1890 elected Members of Parliament, he became a Queen's Counsel. Gladstone's cabinet in the Liberal Party, he also served as Minister of the Interior. this period, he appointed the first female Ombudsman, improved plant management methods, was then made against the institution of the After that (in 1898), had a chance, allowing him to become Liberal leader. but because of the Boer War the Liberal Party split into left and right, Campbell is opposed to the war party (strictly speaking is the middle), A Sikui Sri Lanka is a clear support for the war party, both very difficult to reconciliation, leading to split the Liberal Party, 10 the opposition, the leader of his dream fizzled out. not as a leader, Asquith has not been idle, he used the opportunity as a royal adviser , your life to make money, save the regiment, waiting for the opportunity to make a comeback.
1905 the Balfour resigned the Conservative, the Liberal leader Campbell cabinet, many people believe that Asquith and Campbell can not be settled until aristocracy to Campbell to accept title, entered the hospital, and let the House of Asquith as leader of the Liberal Party. But Campbell has successfully reached an agreement with Asquith, Asquith Campbell served as the most important cabinet position of Chancellor of the Exchequer. mm until Campbell is the king appointed starting from Campbell, the appointment of the next King book, As Prime Minister, sick, mm mandate of the cabinet,bailey UGG boots, prime minister at the time of King Edward VII mm overseas holiday, Asquith had rushed to the outside line of movement of the king, Prime Minister of the people!
Chancellor of the Exchequer during his term in office, and took over as prime minister, and began known as the the traditional British to self-regulation. subtext of this idea is that everyone is free, and have responsibility for their own ability, your rich you are a hero, you are poor you deserve it! and this groups are not appropriate relief. pension, health care, education, employment, etc., by the individual through the are not responsible for the poor, mm of China's reform and opening up, full of social thinking is this, the last almost a catastrophe! Now we all know that attention to vulnerable groups, would be difficult to have a br> For this product, the responsibility in the community. So they were labeled In extreme socialism and extreme individualism liberalism, appeared a wave of is ;. If your English is better discrimination ability, we can see the difference between the two. the difference between them meaning, is ;, state and society began to stress the ; new ; new , in particular welcomed by the working class. After 10 long years after the return to power of the opposition Liberal Party is facing a very important transition tasks, is the need to adhere to the Sri Lanka has just come to power, on the development of the the National Labor agency system the implementation of these social reforms, is the Asquith cabinet succeeded him as Chancellor of the Exchequer's ;, in essence, funds, which with the United Kingdom needs to expand military spending had a great contradiction. Anglo-German relations were deteriorating, the arms race at Chi, the military urged to increase military spending. and in the Boer war, strongly opposed the war, support the dispute, from the Conservative Party to join the Liberal Party, he served as minister for foreign trade), oppose military expansion. At that time the Navy Department asked the main construction of four new ships, Lloyd - George and Winston. Churchill have expressed their opposition that wants to build only will build two. Finally, because of the German military situation grim, gray, etc. adhere to the foreign minister, the government still adopted a plan to build four ships. ridiculed Labour for this Admiral Fisher, Qiu two, says it is prepared the newly built ships were named The two strongly opposed to expansion of military people, but has led the UK's Although the constraints of the military, but social reforms funded by the state against the force or the Conservative Party. Conservative items of social reform bill passed, so they passed the upper house of the Conservative Party majority, the House rejected (that is, the Liberal Party) and a number of social legislation. This makes the Liberal Party and the upper house of the
in this years), you may find his name a bit weird. Indeed, he was a Quest worse, Asquith was not the father 7 years old, while Lloyd - George in less than 1 year old, his father had passed away! Asquith was raised by the uncle in London, a large, There are conditions that will allow him to Oxford. And Lloyd - George raised by his uncle, his uncle, a shoemaker only Welsh countryside. He was very young, and became a salesman for, and later he entered a law firms, affair continued, and made his wife in pain, he was also notorious.
Welsh and the backcountry of the ;. So, after their death, some Christians to not allow their country to the local (official) church cemetery funeral. In a lawsuit thus triggered, Lloyd - George plays his passionate and eloquent genius, in talking about the court, non-believers in the church cemetery States the right to defend the funeral. Since then, the hearts of his people in Wales, leaving the Welsh person he was Member of Parliament for the Liberal Party, and has been seen as are closely linked. origin lower, worked as a salesman, worked as a lawyer Lloyd - George, both landlords struggle with the nobility of passion, but also has Lloyds. George came up with a mind military spending and social insurance costs. This case vetoed the bill.
This may center Lloyd - George wants. because according to British tradition of political practice, the decision to the House budget is a to win the most powerful budget their He would incite a is pretty good!
pass the Budget, the government can not function. Asquith in the House leadership of Liberal Party members condemned the Senate passed a Thus, this can only be held in the 1913 general election (when the British Parliament's term of office is seven years), in the January 1910 start on (January 14 to February 9). but no one thought Because the struggle is intense, both sides refused to give, in this one year, turned out to be held two consecutive general elections! two elections, the Liberal Party is regarded as the ultimate get the upper house, so there can be turned into a None of the bodies, until today.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

The third letter to Chinese students - success, confidence, happiness

 Third letter to the Chinese students
successful, confident, happy
Kai-fu Lee

Previously, many Chinese students and I are focusing on how to achieve good communication and excellence, and how will start to become leaders. Recently, a chat room on Sina.com, and I received many emails, I found that more Chinese students need to know not how from good to great, but how to positive from confusion, from failure to success, from inferiority to self-confidence, from melancholy to joy, from fear to optimism.
An extreme example is the February 2004 took place in Yunnan University Majiajue events. Majiajue brutally murdered his four classmates . But Ma Jiajue arrest conversation with the psychologist's opinion, he should not be an evil person, but a lost, lack of self-confidence, character enclosed children. He and many college students, eager to know how to successful, confident and happy.
my letter is for those who want to succeed but that the success of reach, but always eager to self-pity self-confidence, desire happiness but happiness of the mass of students do not know to read. hope that this letter would give the reader a new one on the definition of success, encouraging readers to understand and recognize themselves to be a happy person. also hope that this letter will help readers understand the success, confidence, happiness is a virtuous cycle: from success in can be confident and happy, where you can be happy from the self-confidence and success, from success and happiness where you can be confident.
success is to be the best American writer William
your own. Faulkner said: Do not make every effort to compete with your colleagues. you should care about is that you stronger than you now. ; success personal wealth as an indicator. But with the best results can contribute to society? Yes fame certainly happy?
true success should be diversified. success may be that you create a new wealth or technology, may be brought happiness for others you may be on the job you get the trust of others may also find the back of your self, inoffensive way of life. each person's success is unique. So, Ling Zhijun in its explore their goals and interests, efforts to pursue progress, so that my every day better than yesterday.
successful first step: take aim in life, be a proactive person
Sina chat room, When friends ask what my goal in life, I was so answered: world and help future generations, allowing them to enjoy better, more efficient, can bring them happiness and joy. gave up work in the United States and moved to China was founded Microsoft Research China, it is because I feel that the latter have a greater influence of work, and my goal in life is more consistent. In addition, when I received a letter sealed confused Student letter, write them a letter, I would think:
Majiajue also realize his goal in life, but unfortunately he was arrested after the incident realize. He said: that is the meaning of life in the end I think what is the purpose? hh things in the future, at this moment I see, I was wrong. In fact, the meaning of life is that there really is. the aim in life, he would ask yourself before anything silly, and full of love of parents, sister, how would think of this? so, he may not go astray by.
So, whether it is for the truth, In order to influence, or for pleasure, family, morality, tranquility, knowledge, innovation hh Once the goals in life, you can target, like me, under the guidance of life, decisively and make major life decisions. each person goal in life is unique. The most important thing is, you have to take the initiative to take their own life goals. But do not be rushed, not in pursuit of so-called
So, how to find your goal? many of my classmates asked me what their goals that? I can not answer, because only one person can tell what your goal in life, that person is yourself. There is only one where you can find your target, that is your heart.
I suggest you close your eyes, the first one comes in your mind the ideal record, as the answer without thinking is the most sincere. or you can also look back at your happiest, most rewarding time, the existence of certain common? they are probably the most motivating your life goal. Furthermore, you can imagine that fifteen years later, when you reach the perfect state of life, what kind of environment you will be in? what kind of work? One of the most fun thing is what? Of course, you may wish to talk about family and friends, listen to their views.
successful second step: to try new areas to explore your interests
yourself to be the best, the most important thing is to play to their full potential, pursue the most interesting and the most passionate thing . When you are interested in a certain area, you will be walking to class or taking a bath when they never forget it, you're in the area easier to be successful. Furthermore, if you have passion in this area, you may it sleepless nights, even when you think of an idea to sleep, will jump. this time, you are no longer working for success, but to
relatively speaking, not interested in doing their own things only half done, there may be nothing. Even if you rely on intelligence or talent to do it well, you definitely do not release all of the potential. Therefore, I do not agree with each students are chasing the most popular professional, I think that everyone should understand their interests, passion and ability (that is, emotional intelligence has said the potential.
Bill. Gates said: we can see his interest in software technology and passion .1977 years because the love of the software, Bill. Gates to give up mathematics. If he left school at Harvard to continue reading and become a professor of mathematics, can you imagine his potential will be suppressed to what degree? 2002, Bill. Gates, Microsoft's 25 years in leadership, but decided the CEO job to Steve Ballmer, because the only way he can participate in the work of his favorite mm as chief software architect, specializing in software technology innovation. Although the Bill. Gates was a great CEO, but when he he was named chief software architect, he was the technical direction of the company made a significant contribution to and, more importantly, he is more passion, more happiness, and which also inspired the morale of all employees.
Bill. a good friend of Gates, America's most outstanding investors, Warren. Buffett also recognized the importance of passion. When a student asked him the direction, he always would reply: . If you want me to give you advice, that this is the best advice I can give you a. not vulgar, unified fame, their fame is their vision and passion can bring. a well-known American SEM has done a survey and found that while most students want to chase fame and fortune in the admission, but alumni with the most fame in, 90% of the ideal pursuit of admission, rather than chasing fame.
I entered the university, to engage in legal or political work. a year later I found myself to it is not interested only in the middle grades. but I fell in love with computers, programming a day frantically, and soon caught the teacher, the students attention. Finally, one day sophomore year, I made a major decision: to abandon more than a year after the nation's top three in the Faculty of Law at Columbia University has cultivated itself into the credits transferred to Columbia University, an obscure computer system. I told myself, life only once, should not be wasted in the absence of joy, no sense of accomplishment in the field. at that time a friend said to me, will pay a lot of change in professional costs, but I told them that there is no passion to do a job will pay a higher price. That day, I elated spirits, I promise to myself, three university should take in each subject is the day the decision of A. If, today, I would not have in the computer industry's achievements, and I probably just a small town in the United States is neither successful nor happy to be a lawyer.
Even so, the passion of my career and my father is far compared. I have always thought his father was a stern man to see his father's favorite until last year the two students (who are now professors ), I know how much my father loved his work. his students told me: on us to spend time and money, far more than his meager income. Students found in his drawer he encouraged his two sentences: favorite.
So, how to find interest and passion? First, you must separate the interests and talents. do you have the talent to do easy achievements, but do not because they do well to think that interest you lies. To find the true interest and passion, you can ask yourself: for something, you are eager to repeat it, whether happily and successfully complete it? you have been longing for the past is not it? it can be quickly to learn it? it always makes you satisfied? you sincerely from the heart (not just from my mind) love it? you the happiest thing in life and it is not relevant? When you ask yourself, Note Do not expect your parents, social values and the influence of friends into your answer.
clear if you can answer these questions, then you are lucky, because most of the students in the university four years in exploring or remorse. If you have yet to find answers to these questions, I have only one suggestion: give yourself the opportunity to reach up to a maximum of choice. I remember I first entered the Carnegie. Mellon's doctoral program, the school has a mechanism allow students to pick the teacher. in the first month, each teacher so that the stops to attract students to do the whole body. It is because of this mechanism, I was lucky enough to meet my mentor, Professor Reddy, select the topic of my Ph.D. speech recognition. , club activities, friends, communication, e-mail and other ways to find hobbies. Only you can try to touch, you can only try to find your favorite.
Ya-Qin Zhang of my colleagues once said: people must be wise. they will not lose, because even if they succeed, they would learn lessons. Therefore, only those who dare to try, is an absolute failure. vision, not only to get lessons learned from, but also to find where their interests.
successful third step: for interest, set milestones, a step forward
find your interest, the next step to do is the development of specific milestones toward their own ideals Yibubuxiang.
First, you should objectively assess their own interests and ideals from the still badly what? is a need to learn a lesson, read a book, make a more sociable person, control your temper or become a better speaker? fifteen years became the best of their own today and what is the difference? or otherwise? you should try to fill these gaps. For example, When I decided to make my life purpose is to maximize my influence, I found that my lack of speech and communication skills. I used to be an embarrassing and talk to people on stage will fear speaking students. I do When TA was especially poor, students and even took me a > Second, you should be set phase, the specific objectives, and then give full play to the traditional Chinese virtues mm hard, up and perseverance to complete the goal. For example, I demand of myself to do two speeches a month, and each time To my classmates or friends to sit, give me feedback. I promise to myself, do not rehearse three times, and never came speech. I demand of myself a month to listen to lectures, ask for advice to the excellent speakers. One speaker taught me several ways to overcome fear, he said, if you look at the eyes of the audience will be tense, you can see the audience's head, and the audience will still think you look at their faces, in addition, do not take the hands of the best The paper takes boxing to come as a trembling hand to the attention of the audience will not. When I repeated practice speaking skills, I discovered a lot of their tips, such as: no script, through story-telling way to express the time I will perform better, so I still prepared speech but only when used in rehearsal; I found my ability to answer questions beyond my ability to speak, so I usually stay for the time required to answer questions; I found myself not interested in can not say something good, so I will not promise that I am not interested about the subject. A few years later, the people around me Doukua my speech well, and some even think I was born a good speaker, in fact, I just practice hard the Chinese people, up and only the traditional virtues such as perseverance.
any target must be realistic, measurable goals, not just stay in the ideological slogans or empty talk. The purpose of setting goals is to progress and do not measure you can not know whether they made progress. So, you have to abstract, and can not be implemented, measurable goals can not be simplified into practical, measurable small goals. For example, a few years ago, I have a goal is to expand my network of people in the company, but objectives. So, I ask themselves, week with one meal, one meal and then understanding. weekly meal expansion.
the development of specific goals must be realistic about their capabilities. goal setting too high of course unrealistic, but the goal must not set too low. on target and timely adjustments to be done: if you exceed your own expectations, can be expected to improve; If you do not meet their expectations, can be expected to reduce. to reach a goal, you can then develop more challenging goals; fails to embrace that, conscientiously sum up the lessons.
Finally, time to remind students, the goal is yours, only you know what he wants. to develop the most appropriate target, take the initiative to upgrade themselves and improve the process in an objective measure of progress, in order to be successful, you can become better themselves.
consciously self-confidence self-confident and not arrogant
who dare to try new areas, can more quickly develop their interests and talents, more likely to succeed. self-confident people are more happy, because he will not the constant fear and beware of failure.
many people think that confidence is a success. a student was the first old, he had confidence. an employee is always being promoted, he also has confidence. But this is only successful and unified unified self-confidence.
fact, confidence is not necessarily a good thing. do not feel confident will be proud of, it will lose the respect and trust of others. good self-confidence is self-conscious, that is clear that he can do, can not do . conscious self-confidence, his probability of success is very large; conscious people do not self-confident, he can try, but the risk will be frank and tell others. conscious people do not need to enhance self-confidence through success, and will not loss of confidence due to failure.
confident first step: Do not underestimate yourself, give yourself pep
. For example, Majiajue said: .
confidence is confidence in your abilities secret. China is an old proverb: . I remember when I was 11-year-old arrived in the United States, could not understand a word of English in class, and once the teacher asked, 1 / 7 and sent me to participate in math competitions, math camp encouraged me to join to help students learn mathematics. her encouragement and recognition of the students gave me confidence. I began to tell myself that I have a math talent. At this time, I especially want to learn English, because the only way to learn more math. this kind of education means not only improved my confidence and helped me in every respect has made considerable progress.
Chinese-style education that human growth is continually overcome shortcomings of the process, so the teacher more in the criticism of students, for students to make up for the worst of the subjects. Although each subject should have learned Roper recently out of a best-selling book the place is less than good enough, There are many examples of self-confidence by: Microsoft Asia Academy of Engineering, Chiang Chang said he grew up, well But it gave me confidence. This is the happiest of my life experience, strength exudes a charming, has continued to this day. I found the whole secret of genius, in fact, only six words: Do not underestimate yourself . . To get confident, you must become your best cheerleaders, may wish to think about before going to sleep every night, nothing happened today, you pride yourself? you get a good result? you help others? What is beyond the your expectations? who praise you? I believe everyone can find a successful day thing, you will gradually find that these > there is a well-known coaches before each game always requires recalls his favorite team a game. He even let the game players and the most proud of an action (such as the clenched fist) linked so that each do their own this action, they will subconsciously think of pride thing, and then repeated before each game to make this motion in order to more cheer for you, make friends, and more memorable past success, do not underestimate yourself.
the second step of self-confidence: with determination, courage, self-confidence from the success in obtained from increasing failure in the conscious
when you feel confident, no matter how small the success, you will particularly look forward to once again be their own or other people's positive, then you need to have enough willpower. as long as you have the stamina, will, like Zhou said, anything as long as I work hard, we will be able to do well. you can learn anything you want to learn, this is not the problem you can not learn, but you want to learn. If you have things their own hands strong desire, you will have a spirit of persistence, especially when you are ordinary people. , in addition to perseverance, but you need courage. I used to work, there is no problem of communication in general, but to the president before, always afraid to speak, for fear wrong thing. until one day, to do the restructuring of the company, President convened ten more than one person meeting, he asked each person speak in turn. I thought, since some talk about it as the truth be told. So I bravely said: However, the efficiency of our poor than anyone else, because the restructuring of our day, regardless of the feelings and thoughts to the staff hh that was really good, really wish I had your courage to say. fear of speaking in front of anybody. This example fully confirmed, not just by Pifuzhiyong thing to do is doomed to failure. But when you fear failure, we might think about what you are afraid of losing? the worst fate that? you can not accept it? In the above example, if the president denied my opinion, he will not respect me? not only not others is likely to think that I am ambitious. Moreover, conscious people learn from failure to recognize that they are not fit to do something, and then upgrade their conscious. So do not fear failure, as long as you do the force, willing to challenge their own limits, you should be proud of their courage.
a confident and conscious, and if they will bravely try new things and perseverance to do it well, where he will gain confidence from the success from failure in the increase of consciousness.
confident the third step: consciously set specific objectives, with an open mind to listen to other people's assessment of training
self-confidence but also set specific goals, step by step forward. These goals must be measurable. I had left before I speak in the example of President told my daughter to listen to, because her teacher thought she was shy in school do not raise their hands to speak, I want to encourage her courage to speak. She agreed to try, but she believed that only at the appropriate time, there are only willing to speak the best advice. But I think with the ; this subjective assessment, the target is difficult to measure. So, she and I developed a measurable, realistic goals: one hand she held a day and if you have one month bonus. Then, we slowly increase the lift the number of hands. A year later, the teacher noticed that she had enough confidence to speak the classroom.
self-confidence not paranoid, does not allow their own mistakes, or excessive self-centered, loss of an objective position. I have very smart colleagues, look for his life, months ago he would have said that. but because he was confident almost to live, once a statement that he was wrong, he would say so outright, or simply denied. Although his accuracy Up to 95%, but 5% of the error so that he lost his credibility and the respect of others. This example tells us that pride of self-confidence or unconsciously self-confidence self-confidence even more dangerous than not.
conscious emotional intelligence in two two levels: both for themselves and the environment Jieneng to master the objective and subjective situation. There conscious people will not unduly self-criticism, and will not naively optimistic, they can objectively assess their own. Therefore, they would face frank their ability to limit and will not easily accept their own ability to work outside. Of course, they are still willing to accept challenges, but will accept the challenge to do an objective risk assessment. such a person not only for their frank and honest to others also. honest people will face defeat and the trust, because they know you accept the lesson. honestly face their shortcomings will get the respect of others, because they know you will not be presumptuous. Therefore, conscious people tend to be successful, it easy self-confidence.
conscious people not only fair to yourself, but also the initiative to ask people around to their criticism and feedback. They understand that although he is very conscientious, but others saw themselves as more important. On the one hand, others more objective in the eyes of their own, on the other hand, others saw their real existence of their own (in social, school or company in the eyes, you're wrong. So, you must understand and accept an open mind the ideas of others, but also with other people's ideas as the ultimate goal. For example, my daughter can assess their everyday speech, but in the end only when teachers and students that she was a cheerful, with the idea of a student, she reached the final goal.
get candid feedback, especially negative feedback is not easy. So, you'd better have Some brave and sincere good friends, and they are willing to speak the truth to you in private. Of course, the negative feedback you can not have any complaints, or you to hear the truth of the future. In addition to the feedback in private, but in the U.S. companies, there is a You still need to improve in certain areas, such allegations or boss than your own views more persuasive. While in school, no such formal investigation, but you can still best way to understand your ideas on others. I father always taught us to seek the things to the public, this means open minded, not to Wells Sky, limited his vision.
Majiajue said: He trusted the students to verify, he may find himself unjustly students may find that staggered a friend, confirmed that the students might actually look down on him and understand why, then self-improvement. frank exchange and perhaps can be a true friend Ma Jiajue help avoid tragedy.
conscious people have set realistic goals for themselves, an objective measure of their own, and will ask others to help evaluate. so people can continue to enhance their self-confidence and self-confidence to avoid the development of pride.

happy is more important than the scientific proof of success: a good mood to play the most potential; happiness can improve the efficiency, creativity and the probability of correct decisions; happy people have an open mind, willing to help others . but not so much happy to bring success, not as good as that is to bring happiness and success achieved. I suggested that students pursue their own ideals and interests, in fact, do their own ideal, are interested in is a happy thing. So, happy More than success should be our ultimate goal.
happy the first step: to accept your parents, the environment, their total
unhappy people helpless to do some sulk, do not like their parents and teachers, do not want to read boring books, do not want to deal with them. For these helpless, and I hope that students can learn to accept them calmly.
at all The most accepted is to be parents. there are many students said: is to avoid them, more and more lonely. parents grow in different environments, different ways of thinking, their definition of success may also be different on your expectations and your own expectations have a greater difference. but their way of life You went fairly long, experience than you rich, you can not preconceived to exclude them. In addition, you must understand that parents are in the world who loves you, they are the only people who pay for you unconditionally, you should unconditionally accept your parents. for their children often to over-idealize their parents, and neglect the vast majority of parents in their growth environment, we are more scarce than, less than, they may not have the opportunity to learn how to be a good parents, but their conditions, but also best. If we despise, reject their parents, we would be disrespectful of their source of life, how to be happy?
Second, you can try to change to parents, but you should first ask that you understand and accept your parents? you can understand parents thinking? expect when you complain about your parents always perfect, do not you also in the hope that parents perfect? Ling Zhijun suggested that: You should let parents know that you expected of them. to mutual understanding, perhaps you ...

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Complete interpretation of Scorpio

 Scorpio (Oct. 24 Nov. 22) Gem: Topaz lucky color: dark red lucky day: Tuesday Lucky Numbers: 3,5 Lucky Location: near water EQ index: 80 90 disposal planets: Mars and Pluto ruling planet : The Origin Myth of Mars and Pluto Scorpio days after the order Na Zhu from the dark underground crawl out to attack Europe and Li-An (Orion, in love Diana the hunter, the latter into Orion). Another time release poison gas attacks are driving Scorpio the sun god through the Phaeton carriage, leaving the opportunity to launch lightning Cupid, the sun will run in the car wreck. nemesis Scorpio Scorpio Libra and Gemini can not stand, when we all seriousness, they will show a slovenly, cynical look. should learn to enrich the life of the practice of Virgo, do not be too concerned about their own shortcomings, so to that they have a strong sense of inferiority. Scorpio Scorpio natural appearance of skin color in the black, which highlights the vision particularly sharp, bright . Their broad forehead, thick eyebrows, thick, flat and fleshy cheekbones, lips and it seems obvious determination, the chin is hard and strong. Overall, it looks easy to give energetic, decisive, enthusiastic impression. Scorpios God of War by the representative of the characteristics of Scorpio Mars and Pluto symbol of domination of the House of Hades, and the poor old Scorpio zodiac is considered as the most ill-conceived, and even ruthless in the constellation, in fact, this is not fair, hidden heart of Scorpio Friends loyalty, kindness through thick and thin. Of course, their Scorpio regarded as a model of the word, want to be Scorpio's friend, available to enhance their ability to take good Oh! This is a very narcissistic constellation, always emphasizes the mysterious, do not want people to see, what is also true for friends sometimes ambiguous, but a friend just like the first two types of one annoying character in this Enyuanfenming also fully exposed, like those great sense of obligation and highly tolerant of the lack of friends; and hate, while not disappearing, it is also very anxious that he do not want to see him. and thoughtful character, keen intuition, for the execution of the decision is always afraid of things frustration, persist in the end; though offend some people but most people is certainly your abilities. to emotional , the love-hate is very strong and still maintain its mystical, sexy, exudes natural charm, playing hard to play with others at the hands like that, but for his own choice is a special situation, it is worth mentioning that if Scorpio fell or malignant human sell its non-ordinary people can counter the strength of materials, forcing you to leave but will not make you automatically can not stand to leave. Scorpios are the advantages of Scorpio people strategy, the ability of rich insight into the key things. emotions are very sensitive, sensitive to emotions and has a rich imagination, decisive, practical and passionate, subjective views of strong determination, perseverance, and most people easily bored and avoid things that can often stoic stubborn to do so. smart, intelligent, Wuli high. rich intuition. Scorpio The disadvantage Scorpio has a tendency to interfere in others things, impulsive, aggressive, jealous, angry, stubborn, stubborn, unruly, suspicious, fickle, brains deep, too emotional, a good adventure, often arrogant dream. on Food and wine in regular over-indulgence, personalized sinister, cold, often using trickery and wit to defeat the enemy. Scorpio personality makes them extraordinary effort is hidden in the capital, other people tend to think of it and I do not know to prevent, if The applications will focus on the right track, it has a lasting endurance, to the relentless pursuit of goals, until the completion, so that he can in the fierce competition, stand out. Scorpios are possessive, jealous and vindictive are very important not only emotionally but to other areas beyond the others can not tolerate, or even take a cold will thus means retaliation. Scorpios are cool, smart, loyal to their own desires, ignoring what others think. imperious overbearing, good confidentiality and conceal the truth, the workers in the plot, character gloomy, uncertain. concentrate is the most prominent feature on the Scorpio personality, once set goals, they'll go all out. Almost all the descriptions and Scorpio, are emphasized His emotional depth, in fact, the sign that other areas of life are also given the same enthusiasm, he likes to maximize his own life, whether at work or the games will have a tendency to over-hard, However, the target of strong and sincere, will lead to over-demanding. Scorpio Scorpio the performance of the human mind the cold outside the inner passion of people, full of curiosity, have a good eye. they are born with a magnetic force to attract others, the whole body exudes energy, excitement charming atmosphere. Although people are born Scorpio lack of reasoning and the ability to see through their own challenges facing, but his sharp intuitive sense is more pity, therefore, often have the performance starts acting strangely. He So like the difficulties, the difficulties are not his own special hobby, but he wanted to know what difficulties they are facing kind of reaction. innovative, bold, like power, too strong to suppress the will at any time and arbitrary the tendency of lone, arrogant personality and impulsive behavior easy to set up the enemy, people should be more tolerant of different ideas and style. Zhuoyue Jian talk about the characters is very popular, independent and organized to show the spirit and keen diplomatic skills , can easily get there from friends he wanted, so could easily be spoiled and become self-centered. Scorpios love palace in the twelve zodiac, Scorpio is the most favorite constellation of powerful feelings, the emotional life The blazing performance, focus and long-lasting, when once aroused jealousy is Shenju devastating. feeling very unstable, sometimes difficult to understand the strong suspicion of implication heart heart heart struggle, so to talk about feelings, then it easy to go overboard. Scorpios are usually the most will feel there is a life and personality shortcomings irreparable. usually Scorpio men always have enough energy to conquer each other, he is the pursuit of victory in a sense, in this regard as well. Scorpio plenty of emotion can be obtained from the sex life vent the best, but the jealous individual is likely to cause emotional fatal blow. Scorpio Scorpio people who can not stand the cause of flat and monotonous job, you need to work in the sense of accomplishment, but can not stand the monotonous routine. He Once the lack of challenging work will find a new time, and even force myself to stay out of trouble, the effort to set up their own from adversity Foundation, or give up the cause has been re-scale fighting. any of his ability to make face the biggest test of the work, are able to meet the needs of his work. Scorpios find the core of the problem with a talent for breaking the law if engaged in the work, will also be a smart criminals, and let the big headache for the police. This constellation people often have power, wealth, fame and status the envy of others, but to pay attention, do not easily and his enemies, because he himself is an easy vengeful person. get to the bottom of the academic research is Scorpio people are good at one of the items. he can concentrate them in the long-term exploration, and often choose, and medical-related items such as surgical or psychological as the object of study. Scorpios can become good soldiers or sailors, they are favorite discipline, and to abide without error, the militarization of life may be able to satisfy his almost masochistic attitude. If the use of talent, but also in the detective, espionage, great development of the scientific community.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

7 customs around the world

 Sailungaidi plain
a long time, Africa has always been in our mind is a distant and mysterious place. Speaking of this land in my mind the picture very complex, horrifying famine, war documentary news photos, United States, can fully show the film, but no matter from what perspective on the African earth, always escape from wild animals.
was said to be filtering ads, wildlife and mysterious African continent, the land between this kind of humanity has always can not intervene in the link, located between Tanzania and Kenya proved this statement Sailungaidi prairie.
Sailungaidi in the Masai language means Perhaps this comes from living in the grasslands of the annual mass migration habits of animals. Every July and August, thousands of animals on the prairie residents would migrate to the west by the Sailungaidi grassland areas north of lush, October the south for calving, and then turned back to the western prairie. year after year, regardless of what the road will encounter bad weather and the environment, regardless of the number of road opportunistic predators devour their cubs in their migration times and routes, as the clock as accurate as if the earth's rotation can not be changed. this animal on the prairie has an annual migration of thousands of miles into the instincts into. Why do they migrate? Why do they always take the same route, how they pass on the knowledge of these migratory population in the pups? scientists trying to understand the mystery, but if you were not a wildebeest, how can they know what it means to migrate?
We do not know anything, we can only make an outsider Watch and praise. sitting in the van roof can be opened into the Sailungaidi prairie, you have entered the strange world of wild animals, elephants, buffalo, zebra, hippos, antelope, giraffe is everywhere, good luck also to see lions, bald eagle or ostrich. as long as the prospective operator of the moment, waiting in the only way animals move, you can see the endless brigade zebra, wildebeest free Mercedes-Benz on the grasslands. They run the , raised the dust in the sunlight as if enveloped in a layer of gauze on the prairie. may be used to describe such a magnificent scene of the spectacular migration of it, the roar of the ear, in front of horses, are the life force display. This power is so amazing, can break through all obstacles. Tanzanian government once for human development perspective, migration of animals on the way in setting the barbed metal fences, preventing them from going north. man's attempt to intervene Sailungaidi order to block tens of thousands of animals for a thousand years of journey, the result is certainly not polite to overcome the force of movement of the fence, thousands of miles to their journey. Nothing can stop them, they are the masters here. Salem Getty flow of grassland will not stop anyone. This is the essence of life. Here you will find the most beautiful moment of a horse rider, there is no control, no halter restraint, the free moment of Mercedes-Benz . the charm of life to continue moving forward in these animals is no doubt expose.
number of interventions may be the only Sailungaidi this wonderful natural world of human beings is the local indigenous Masai people. But they look in the eyes of outsiders is singular to family, they live in houses built with cow dung, wearing national costume features Masai, particularly surprising is that they wear full ear on a variety of accessories, and even hung on the nose also full of jewelry. they are also a group of people we can not understand.
Sailungaidi we will not stop our exploration of the Sailungaidi the owner will not bother because we stop their migration. Sailungaidi flow is eternal.
Geographic profile:
eastern Africa between Kenya and Tanzania, grasslands, a radius of 31,080 square kilometers, including the national parks in Tanzania and Kenya Sailungaidi Masai Mara Wildlife Reserve, which 马萨伊玛拉 Wildlife of Kenya's largest wildlife sanctuary is also inhabited by indigenous people where the Masai people.
Language:
Swahili, English, Masai language
Climate:
minimum average temperature of 15 degrees Celsius, the average maximum temperature of 26 degrees Celsius for the rainy season, March to June each year.
Wildlife:
Sailungaidi grassland 2,000,000 kinds of live wild animals, including 1.5 million gazelles, 2000 lions and 250 cheetahs. June of each year, beginning on the grassland in the dry season, herds of wild animals begins with a large-scale western prairie Sailungaidi migrate to the north where the river, until the rainy season began, the animals went to the southeast to the litter, and then back to the western prairie. They walked the same route every year, again and again, year after year as one.
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Loire is the longest in France She is the middle section of the most beautiful valley. There are many fine rivers are filtered ads hills, ancient castles nestled in green leaves. These castles were mostly built in the Middle Ages and the Renaissance castle deep house, moss mottled,Discount UGG boots, to the vicissitudes of the French added some sense of the garden. Hundred Years War, the French royal family had fled to refuge in the Loire Valley, the Loire Valley, also known as the the legend of the royal family anecdotes, which makes up the castle becomes more mysterious.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Cipian ordinary income young people wrote to the city

 1, do not believe that any paint you a bright future. Experienced a housing reform, medical reform, reform later, if you have not wake up, it is naive to friends. 2, China will starve to death, illness, poor dead,cheap UGG boots, but must not be starved to death, illness, death of most of the poor. On the job: work life, the source of income, so in order to live a better future, where high income from work, where to run, which enliven the regional government, and went Which. follow the policy go to die to go to Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shanghai to die to go to Beijing, and Beijing has to die to go somewhere else, in short, ahead than others. policy from time to time change, changes in policy, what vision do not believe, do not do We can not control the civilian population. On the body: now popular The. see the health care right now, a serious illness, life can you run out of money! then you so go die. Needless to say, one bloody story. Therefore, no matter how busy, must pay attention to the body, more exercise, maintain a good state of mind. If a job looks more money point, but it must strive and work hard in order to suggest that you consider. there is no money to save some flowers, my wife can not live, but without a healthy body , the only death awaits you. On the house: buy a house now has several disadvantages: 1, house prices artificially high; 2, unequal treaties, and tricky, too; 3, management fees, security fees, together, better than how much cheaper rent; 4, bought a house in one place, it is equivalent to your own place in a bind, You will find very difficult to move. The policy of constant change,bailey UGG boots, difficult to say that place has been subject to attention. give example, before the commercial center of Guangzhou, People's Road area in the South Building, more well-known, ah, now? I see a lot of people are constantly trading house, one after another, the by the government led by the nose, loss of death a. 5, China's city planning there is a big problem, has been in constant change in future there must be a time of 10 years on a house bought 20 years will be labeled a big But in China, even the how much money in the future to find a place to spend their remaining years, or the case of low prices, buy no later than. About partner: the high cost of love, regardless of money or time, especially for men,. so if you are not too rich, then the really serious to find someone to marry better than anything else. Do not be lonely and looking for friends, play to play, eventually you will find an empty dream, dream consume, is your money, time, future and ideal. on education: It can be said that China's education is a waste of money, I have not heard who is from the university learn useful things. But in China, do not read do not have a college, but University of enough. just out of work, education seemed to look very important, therefore likely to have misled the students to read hard, master and doctoral ... in fact, 5 years as long as you work, you will find that your work experience and social relationships than anything else. A good network of social relations is absolutely important than any PhD. rely on the accumulation of social relations? mainly rely on the work exposure! on the car: the car is not really in the role of China, in particular,

Monday, December 13, 2010

Capricorn person's physical and health promotion

 Capricorn mental conditions than physical conditions are good, generally not much sleep, eating too moderate. This is an anxiety-type of character he would often continue to have that feeling, until the last moment of life. Depression would make him the body The drug claims, particularly the slow metabolism of uric acid, which may cause gout, rheumatism, arthritis and a variety of pain sensation.
rest of Capricorn is absolutely necessary, because he was agitated, irritability and anxiety with emotional imprisonment. In addition, poor digestion are often influenced by his emotions. In fact, this constellation will often feel unwell, pain is not here, there is pain, but he can rest assured that this does will not affect his long life journey, as the constellation Capricorn represents longevity.
into the woods, it is best to walk in the pine forest, will help to eliminate his mental and physical fatigue. if he can pine forest have a small house, I often go there on weekends or days away in his later years, his mind is extremely beneficial.
Capricorn people like mountain climbing, or to the natural caves, caverns, unique scenic areas, and all the fresh air places to go, this is his reclusive personality of the special needs. speleology research and study is also very suited to his personality alone.
Usually, people do not like this one sport, so he always felt cold and fatigue. However, he should always do some sports, some more sweat in order to rid the body of excess uric acid.
Capricorn human body needs magnesium, it is a good addition to their role in the skin (his error-prone skin), but also help to eliminate mental and physical fatigue. inspiring spirit and rid the body of toxins.
In addition, his body needs calcium for this proposal Capricorn eat raw food, food, oatmeal, bran bread, rice and pollen, fresh egg yolk, cheese (goat cheese is a cheese),Discount UGG boots, cabbage, lentils, etc., all contribute to calcium supplementation. Capricorn is not appropriate to try to avoid meat and more sugar, and acidic fruits and vegetables such as tomatoes, sour bread, pickles, etc., should eat plenty of fresh vegetables. suggested that this constellation of people eat strawberries, raw carrots and raspberry, which is very beneficial in enhancing liver function, and would feel more cheerful.
Capricorn and the general mood of depression the morning, with the commencement of work and activities of the day, his mood gradually become active again,UGG boots clearance, usually at the peak of his excitement, so he always sleep late In order to maintain good mental and physical, he needs to be taken to ensure adequate sleep.
Capricorn health cypress plants, cypress fruit has anti-rheumatic and enhance the function of veins. the sign that is due to very sensitive to cold and diseases, which made him the lack of adequate resistance to colds. If he felt signs of a cold, should take measures as soon as possible.
ease of mind, happiness is Capricorn health measures, he learn to get rid of bad habits trying to think, because it will lead to stomach ulcers. decoction following the prevention of gastric ulcer and digestive function.
aggregate roots hh50g
cornflower hh20g
Marigold hh10g
coriander seed hh10g
take two tablespoons per liter of water the plants, soak for several hours, then boil, then soak for 5 minutes, after dinner drink.
to prevent gastric ulcer Another method is to drink fresh cabbage juice, drink half a glass every morning fasting, such as adding a few drops of lemon, the better.
Capricorn on people suffering from arthritis, radioactive mud and clay treatments are most effective treatment.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Libra whole fortune fortune this month is more bleak

 Libra whole fortune fortune this month is more bleak, the sun a star living in the former palace. Saturn has entered Libra officially begin the role of a long period of sustained pressure began to shape and to increase. Fortunately, many current stars on the house back, plus no more pressure, but also have room to breathe. and perseverance during this period can show surprise , job performance and performance instead of stronger.
fortune 3 stars
Libra this month shipped a bit cool, but the house of love related to the possible role of the Neptune, can be added to the romantic pregnant.
have a partner : The mutual relations still persist, and less of the feeling of estrangement, but also to get along with each other more easily, warm feel closer to each other from the sweet.
single: the opportunity to reduce a lot, but there are better quality , will not be accommodated, there your heart is the most important feeling.
4 stars
investment banking operation this month, rising wealth Libra, Venus, Mars is located within the financial house, really great money to make, a great increase income, is also stepping up efforts to have more positive recovery. However, investment in the financial markets have little luck, the near month and there is no power and potential, somewhat more difficult to profit from the investment .