Temperament and demeanor

 Yesterday, the Sohu blog friends give me a shout, satisfactory answer, I really seriously think a lot.
in interpersonal relationships, people often like to use What is the grace of a relationship? temperament can be trained up?
temperament of modern psychology to be understood as: the typical person's mental activity, stable individual characteristics. Temperament is a person within conservation or cultivation involuntary exposure, not just superficial. As my students gave me the message described it: blot, despite his (her) how gorgeous dress is no disposition to speak of, but instead give people a superficial feeling. elegant demeanor depends on the wealth of heart, which is why well-educated people who , often elegant demeanor, a poetry and literature abdominal gas from China. So, if you want to upgrade their temperament, in addition to well-dressed, speaking in a measured, should also improve knowledge, strengthen the moral character, and improve their personality, gradually make their lives enriched.
demeanor and temperament of people concerned with the person's occupation and age-related, and human qualities and cultivation, but also on quality of life. grace is at work, and communication behavior, discourse, attitude, style, clothing reflected by the particular style, is an external image. If the U.S. is a spiritual temperament of beauty, inner beauty; so gracious charm of beauty is a beauty, physical beauty. A gracious man, will come to know the importance of etiquette to know both polite, and graceful, in accord with nature, in line with modern human mm This is cool demeanor.
external manifestations of grace is the temperament, demeanor embodied in the United States is a noble and elegant temperament. temperament that inner beauty is bound to be reflected in the appearance and demeanor outside the United States and certainly this is a good internal quality explicit way. so-called temperament and grace, inner beauty and outer beauty is the harmony, is a moral and knowledge aspects of human accomplishment in the behavior of externalization. tone of voice, interpersonal attitudes are the property of temperament category. In short, elegant and generous temperament gives a comfortable, natural, friendly, easy-going feel.
a superb temperament and demeanor of people, often rely on heavy behind knowledge and talents to support. In other words, temperament and demeanor is the result of years of accumulation and slowly formed, sometimes even several generations of practice, so-called education by the bar. temperament and demeanor can all be cultured, conscious after a long exercise, can develop a noble and elegant temperament and demeanor. I believe that almost all of them are eager for their character and appearance of the can on more appealing to others. So, how can practice a good temperament? Here is my summary of First, to read more ground thinking; to sparse pro gentleman villain; keep meaning to talk less; to practice instrument shaped body weight; to see the world by storm.
Second, read the poetry scenery; to listen to beautiful music ; see more excellent works; more beautiful scenery tours; pay more good friends.
Third, do not care about; do not regard themselves as aloof; not too wise; not fraud; not ignore the practice.
Sometimes, a Temperament is a natural species, even in subtle form, if deliberately to train will be counterproductive. For example, an aura is not trained in everyone, some people are born to give a can guide the overall momentum, the average person is very difficult to practice as a If a camel reborn soon after it becomes beautiful, this makeup artist were more or less merit, but more self-confidence dictates. self-confidence, and temperament will improve. Do you agree with?