The heart of light

 Colleagues in recent days, the heart light
encountered an annoyance, a very good college students do not find a job and no money, temporarily boarding her home, more than one person, and it would affect their order and private lives are their own space, time, but also continue to bear some resentment and worry friends, all of a sudden accumulation of universities like those pure friendship is seriously overdrawn hh
people would like, once the pressure of a bad mood accumulated to a certain extent inevitable need for a vent channel, intended and unintended will dump this trouble for me, of course, she wanted me to help her find a solution.
This is a problem, I know, and no way, but how many can still hope that the vulnerability of energy, trouble light or a confused mind.
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distance and quality of human relations as the relationship between space and time away from you recently, and you naturally it is the oldest best friend, friends, is a human heart the needs of communication, is one of the most powerful social support, in fact, and you can share the joy and grief of the people are rare in the rights and interests as the center secular, the friend is in a better hope your heart and home.
anyway and cherish the people close to you, because she thought that you, trust you, respect you, that is enough, maybe she has a lot of trouble, worries and troubles, but those are not deliberately to her training and preparation you ah.
everything in the universe, any two objects close to the great changes have occurred, let alone two people, so many emotions and feelings so many ideas and concepts, collisions and in constant communication, not her change you, not what you do to her, but in the process, as long as you are positive, things are finally reached, all benefit both sides.
Sometimes, people need to do is quietly accepted, the pleasure and pain, joy and troubles of life as a wealth of experience and friendship which will become the future of the most beautiful landscape.
do not know your heart can ignite a beacon.
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In fact, she was very concerned about and cares about her friends, one day invited to our office, because I have things to do , also called face to face, then she told me, in fact, hope that I talk to her about, to spirit hh she did not tell me beforehand, in fact, are in themselves of no use to say, the key is to see her willing to accept and change , will discuss ideas and concepts may not play a role in ah.
also so natural about her classmates, she simply told me things about her.
the students and the figure looks very general, can be said to her disadvantage; but the mind alert and rapid response, never looking over to make a decision; relatively strong man, like to argue and express; admit defeat, a dice tenacity, can persist; Mind kind and helpful hh
We met her and left the office, greeted each other, but her eyes did not look at me, I think her lack of self-confidence, a lack of confidence of the people, to the strange environment will naturally timid, can only feel very much at home environment to play, the reason why sometimes like to argue and express feelings of inferiority is in fact the performance of a strong and confident people will not choose to argue with people; other is the lack of enthusiasm, passion is contagious, is drum with power, lack of enthusiasm stems from the cold heart, a constant thought to himself as the center, lack of love, often does not show focus and passion hh
this way, can provide some reference for her concepts, such as confident, enthusiastic, full of love, do not argue, do not take your response to people's strong disadvantage, to insight, to discover and strengthen their own advantages and become a recognized others who discard their illusions.
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temperament change requires practice, practice is to consistently bring the concept of change and action, is actually a process of insight and self-made, one person did not want to change themselves, but their own fantasy world, but because the This is the biggest flaw of the change, we can help is always willing to change their own people, had not we can change people.
just to be able to light up a light heart, can be considered a good thing to do it. ultimately the let her figure out their strengths and weaknesses, such as the image is inferior, even the best clothes or wear the head is useless no matter how hot, and will not play to their advantage, now the most scarce of integrity, loyalty and love, then do not work hard in appearance, in their own unique temperament to think more about, of course, people are now just look outside, but in fact really being recognized, finally temperament and heart, but takes a long time and the atmosphere of some hh learn to find the opportunity to make themselves win!
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said so much, colleagues, friends of the change is not much sure, ask me what to do? I am also a wry smile, you have, as long as you can done on the line, can light up her heart, could not help her change, to see her own choices and actions, so why worry about it for the unknown thing?
Yes, you say that you own business, people who believe it or not is a matter, the best will not affect you anyway, this is sufficient, if a person is not just look at who is to see whether the truth to say, this man is wise, If only the letter of authority of the people say, even friends of all faith, however, only proper way his eyes Yumi hh people will naturally see the life-saving straw, hence the saying the heart of the people will naturally trend Fuk a refuge hh have another big one energy can not lift themselves, if in deep mire of self will sink deeper and deeper, difficult to get away, this time not to accept other people's persuasion and guidance, it would sink in the end, as long as life security, going back is not later than, ah, rescue Why should people who are worried about it? Oh.